True Men
Be strong I heard him say
It made me feel bold I must admit
But in his lessons of manhood
There’s something I must have missed
I heard him tell mom he loved her
But when she got in his way
His face turned to stone
His heart it filled with rage
My eyes would fill with tears
He would turn to me and say
Real men don’t cry…stand up
Be strong…learn to walk away
I thought I would never forget
The sadness in momma’s face
He said…your tears mean nothing
He killed a part of her that day
Throughout life as a young “man”
My father taught these lessons to me
How to look tough…never stand down
Be the man you’re supposed to be
Slowly I grew out of my childish ways
Got girlfriends of my own
Slowly their tears meant less
With every fist I’d thrown
Still ringing in my ears
This voice…be a man
Do whatever you want
Only REAL men can
My tender hearted ways subsided
I finally stepped up to the plate
No one could stop me now
I’m a man…I am great
He taught me all I needed to know
Saying life is a great big test
Step on the weak…women…children
As he puffed out his chest
I became my father one year
Not sure when it did occur
Dad got older…had a stroke
His voice started to slur
We got into an argument
He disputed my state of “man”
I told him to shut up
I quickly lifted up my hand
He said what you are doing
I’m your father…you’re my son
God spoke down from above…
Are you happy with what you’ve done?
You took my innocent lamb
Made him heartless and cold
Taught him to be you
He only did as he was told
Now he hits women and children
Wouldn’t think twice about you
And you dare ask who he is
What did you think he would do?
He has become the victim
Of an age old disease
Where man thinks he is great
So why fall down to his knees?
Instead of instilling My Light
You left him alone to die
The very first moment
He watched his mother cry
If we do not make a change
The chain of hate goes on
Our children are not tokens
They are not little pawns
My mindful of what you teach
For strength is not found in the hand
But in the hearts of children
I hope you understand
Men are not savage and cruel
That is evil…nothing else
Use your arms for loving
Be a better self
For the disease of hatred
Can end here today
But you must submit
And walk in My Way
I never forgot that moment
When God spoke to my Dad
He gave me the biggest lesson
The largest I ever had
Be kind in your gestures
Even words can cut deep
Be mindful of who you are
And the company you keep
It’s not okay to hit
It’s not okay to cause harm
My heart refilled with joy
My soul began to warm
So here is my message to you
It’s the best one I can send
Keep your focus on God
He’s the maker of TRUE MEN
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